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Are you an Imploder or an Exploder?

Imploding is when you are feeling sad and guilty; 

Exploding is when you are feeling angry and blaming others. 

Blame is nourished by guilt. Blame is an expert way to obfuscate your guilt – when it is someone else that has caused your distress, you are no longer responsible for your actions.

In the same way, anger is nourished by sadness. Sadness is a tantrum in a class all of it's all, but blame can ignite your sadness into anger - and you explode.

Exploding is so much more satisfying than imploding. 

Is that your preference?

Exploding is expansive - filling the space around you; whereas imploding means retreating into the dark, hiding, dying on your own. You want to go out in a blaze or a whimper?

So here's what I believe about all that:

I say - give me a world of Imploders. 

If you're going to be neurotic and ruin your world, why give everyone else misery too?

Imploders are decent enough to accept that they are at part cause for how they feel – when it comes to the wisdom stakes, Imploders are winners.

Exploders are moronic, ignorant and way more dangerous to Society. It is not enough for them to mess up their own minds; they want to take out some of us too.

I am writing like an Exploder aren't I?

Oh dear, so hard to stay awake.

Self- realised living does not contain any implosions or explosions – it contains joy and enthusiasm. I don't profess to have got there, but I know this much: when you start to study your postural movements - after a year or so of studying - you become sensitised to how your emotions affect your moving physical Self in minute detail.

You slowly recognise how your way of seeing the world is driving your postural movements. You accept that moving freely goes in tandem with emotional freedom – not being encumbered by heavy negative emotions that distort your movement mechanism.

Here's a simple plan that I use when I notice the Imploder/Exploder arrive:

Whenever I blame someone, the question I put to my Self is:

What am I guilty about?

Whenever I am angry, the question I put to my Self is:

What am I sad about?

It's shifting from Exploder to Imploder – which is moving closer to the truth.

Once you know these things, you cannot turn back without increasing your guilt. You can hide, obfuscate, rant, blame, yell, but your physical Self knows the truth, and one day it will present its bill.

Of course, these are my discoveries. It's a path – a lifetime of study.

When you remove your Self from the habitual environment of home, and put your Self into a novel environment far, far away – it gets easier to see what is going on.

Golden Week in Japan for 2020 is an ideal place to start.

https://atsuccess.com/alexander-discovery-workshop-japan-jeremy-chance.html

Oh, and by the way:

Joy and enthusiasm feed each other too.

Whenever I am joyful, the question I put to my Self is:

What am I enthusiastic about?